Unpopular Opinions, Harry and Meghan edition

I've tried to avoid the drama between Prince Harry, his wife Meghan, and the British Royal Family. Alas, I do not live under a rock, and so the drama has found me. I am a middle-aged white man, so of course I Have Opinions, which I will now share with you.

1) Opinion on the Royal Family - yeah, they've been shitty to both individuals.

2) Opinion on Harry - clearly, he does not want to play the role assigned to him. But he knows that he is (was?) a member of a family that is very traditionalistic and not friendly to outsiders. How could he have possibly predicted that bringing in an non-traditional outsider would cause the situation to go to shit on a racehorse? (Sarcasm alert, for those so impaired.)

3) Opinion on Meghan - she is not blameless. The dysfunction of the Royal Family is not a secret. She was definitely not residing on Pluto when the Royal Family was chewing up and spitting out Diana - a woman who was at least of the same nationality and class as the rest of the crew.

Gerrib's Law - if you walk into a shitstorm, expect to get some shit on you.

Now I shall endeavor to find a rock somewhere (maybe on Pluto?) where I can crawl under and ignore this situation.